Law Enforcement and Legal Stakeholders

Romance Fraud Awareness Week – Day 4: “When the Law Doesn’t See Love as a Crime” (TBC)

Romance fraud isn’t just a scam. It’s a form of coercive, relationship-based abuse.
And yet, too often, it falls between legal cracks, dismissed as “poor judgement” or “not a police matter.”


This day exists to change that.

We’re calling on policing, justice, safeguarding, other legal organisations, and front-line responders to recognise the real trauma, criminal complexity, and emotional grooming involved in romance fraud – and to respond with empathy, urgency, and consistency.

We have some incredible officers already providing best practice. There are some incredible toolkits and guidance from organisations already helping victims the right way. Let’s celebrate these achievements and make them reality for all victims.


What’s Happening on Law Enforcement Day:

New Resource: “Trauma-Informed Response to Romance Fraud”

  • Downloadable guides for police, caseworkers, and legal advisors.
  • Helps first responders understand hot states, grooming, trauma bonding, and why victims may not present as expected.
  • Includes sample scripts and the importance of using the right language for non-blaming victim interviews.

Coercive Control Meets Financial Fraud

  • Explores legal parallels between romance fraud and domestic abuse.
  • Includes policy references and examples of progressive prosecutions in the UK and abroad.
  • Download materials from the National Trading Standards and support their #NoBlameNoShame campaign

Officer Voices: Stories From the Front Line and Beyond

  • Short reflections from officers who’ve seen romance fraud up close.
  • What changed their perspective, and how others can learn.

Encouraging Culture Shift

Victims of romance fraud are often met with disbelief or scorn, sometimes from the very systems meant to protect them. But this isn’t about placing blame. It’s about equipping responders with the right tools and trauma-informed mindset to lead with compassion and credibility.


Your Role in Raising the Standard

Whether you’re a neighbourhood officer, cybercrime unit, CPS lawyer, or family court worker, you are not powerless. When law enforcement sees victims as victims, not fools, trust is rebuilt and justice becomes possible.

For best practice already in play-take a look at these downloadable resources and amazing officers: